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Before Another Child
Current load, recovery, money, help, and how existing children are affected.
3AM Test
Private decision survey
Before a big decision, ask the questions you avoid.
3AM Test helps couples answer privately, compare expectations, and turn hidden mismatches into a clear conversation plan.
Raw answers stay private. The shared report shows patterns, not private notes.
The real problem
Most couples agree on the headline. They miss the details.
One person says “we’ll share it.” The other hears a schedule, a budget, a boundary, or a way out if it becomes too much. 3AM Test turns those assumptions into questions you can answer before the decision becomes real.
How it works
A private survey first. A shared report after.
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Pick the decision
Choose the decision in front of you: another child, a move, a shared home, a break, or a breakup.
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Answer in private
Answer adaptive questions alone or with a partner. In couple mode, both people get the same core questions and answer separately.
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Read the plan
See the stress zones, hidden mismatches, recommendations, scripts, and a short plan for the next conversation.
Modules
Built for decisions that change daily life
Each module uses context-aware questions instead of a generic compatibility quiz.
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Before Breaking Up
Safety, housing, money, children, pets, contact rules, and closure without chaos.
M·05
Before Relocation
Career tradeoffs, family distance, money, loneliness, trial periods, and exit plans.
M·06
Before Taking a Break
Duration, contact rules, dating boundaries, shared bills, housing, and what has to change.
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More modules: first child, marriage, sharing a home, buying a home, and pets.
Privacy
Private where it matters
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Raw answers stay private
Partners do not see each other’s raw answers or private notes unless a person chooses to share them.
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AI runs through our backend
The app talks to our Worker. The phone does not send sensitive answers directly to a model provider.
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Community has safety tools
Anonymous posting, reporting, blocking, and moderation are part of the product from the first version.
Community
Read what others wish they had asked earlier
Anonymous stories help people see the conversations they are avoiding, without turning the feed into advice from strangers.
“We thought the move was about the city. It was really about whose career would carry the cost.”
“We both wanted another child someday. We disagreed on recovery, timing, and who was already overloaded.”
“The plan helped us define the pause before we turned it into a vague breakup.”
Pricing
Free to start. Pay only for a full report.
Start the survey and see a teaser before any purchase. One-time reports come first; subscriptions can wait.
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Solo reflection
Free teaser
Start on your own and see a preview of the pressure points before unlocking the full reflection.
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Couple report
See in-app
Both partners answer in private. One shared report shows alignment, mismatches, and what to talk about next.
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Deep report
See in-app
Extended analysis, agreement templates, a retest path, and more tailored recommendations.
Coming soon
Start with the conversation, not the verdict.
The app is being prepared for iOS and Android. Store links will appear here when testing opens.